Young Adults – Next Chapter

The one who needs to speak up is – ME! Being an advocate means that you ask for what you need while respecting the needs of others. Learning advocacy skills helps you obtain what you need, live independently and make your own choices, be able to say no and not feel guilty, and express disagreement respectfully.

And the change you advocate for you can open the path for those coming behind you. But be patient! Making change can take some time. Here’s how to get started.

Think about what you want to be different.

Before you talk to another person, make sure you know what you want to have happen. Do you need to be treated differently? Do you want the other person to stop doing something? Do you need a barrier removed?

Speak clearly and slowly.

Take a deep breath and start with something like, “I would like to talk with you about….” and describe the situation.

Do your research.

Gather background information. Your local CIL can help. Who is affected? How does this divide segments of the community? And find specific solutions to offer.

We will talk about more tips for advocating next month!